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tests/test_launch.py

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ class TrialRuns(HarborCase):
         self.assertEqual(self.h.stopped("Codex"), [])
         self.assertIsNotNone(self.h.trial("Codex"))
         self.assertIn("Trial run: you may work until", self.h.brief("Codex"))
-        self.assertIn("trial run until", self.h.inbox("Codex")[-1]["body"])
+        self.assertIn("trial run until", self.h.inbox("Codex")[0]["body"])
         self.clock.t += 31 * 60
         stops = self.h.stopped("Codex")
         self.assertEqual(len(stops), 1)